Retirement:
Don't Lose Your Sense
of Purpose
What
Will Retirement Be Like?
"It
will be great to do what
I want when I want."
"Whew,
no more office politics
to deal with!"
"At
last, the government will
be paying me for a change."
"I'm
finally F-R-E-E-E!!"
These
statements reflect some
of the positive things
about retirement that
almost everyone looks
forward to. Unless it's
due to illness, the reason
most retirees leave their
jobs is because they want
to, not because they're
pushed out. So for most,
that last day on the job
is a joyful one filled
with an invigorating sense
of personal freedom.
But
many retirees are not
prepared for another feeling
that often follows that
last day of work: a profound
sense of loss.
You've
Got Company
A study sponsored by Civic
Ventures, Temple University,
and the Center for Intergenerational
Learning surveyed retired
people of all economic
levels, and found that
the majority had one thing
in common: They felt lonely.
It wasn't for lack of
friends, family and active
social lives. Instead,
it was a loneliness for
the kinds of relationships
they had established during
their working years. Almost
all workers are part of
teams of some kind, and
those teams have daily
problems to solve, solutions
to work out, new ideas
to introduce.
An
architect who spent her
life drawing plans had
an office full of people
who understood her work
and appreciated her creative
new ideas. A science teacher
of many years had near-celebrity
status among his peers
and his students, who
always seemed to be talking
about the cool things
they were learning in
his class. The manager
of quality-control at
an auto-assembly plant
felt pride in his team
and got a special thrill
each fall when the new
models came out and he
saw them on the road.
At
retirement, they may all
have one thing in common:
loss of a sense of purpose.
The architect's purpose
was to create satisfying
designs, the teacher's
to stimulate young minds,
the quality-control manager's
to assure that his company's
products measured up to
top standards. What will
replace the job satisfactions
that were so much a part
of their identities?
These
days, with rumblings that
social security might
not last and with health
care costs escalating
alarmingly, many retirees
find that instead of feeling
the total freedom they
dreamed about, they are
haunted by worries about
whether they have enough
money saved to actually
enjoy their retired years.
The fact that people are
living so much longer
than they did a decade
ago should seem like good
news-but the prospect
of how to finance all
those extra years is troublesome
to many people when they
leave the workforce.
It's
a fact that retirement
can be an unsettling time.
But it doesn't have to
be.
Many
people have a different
view of retirement. One
respondent in the study
mentioned above said:
"I like to
think of myself as retiring
TO something as opposed
to retiring FROM something."
In
other words, retirement
shouldn't be a stopping
point, but a continuation
of the journey through
life. Why toss all
the experience you've
gained through years of
working? You're one of
the "wise ones"
now. There are people
out there who value you.
A
2005 comprehensive study
released by AARP and Towers
Perrin, a human resources
consulting firm, showed
that many employers are
beginning to recognize
the value of older workers.
It's that old-fashioned
work ethic-you know, expecting
to actually show up on
time and give a fair day's
work for a fair day's
wage. In its September,
2006, Bulletin, AARP honored
50 US employers who are
"friendly" to
older workers.
But
doesn't going back to
work defeat the whole
idea of being retired?
Isn't it supposed to be
time to stop showing up
for work when someone
else says you should?
You wanted freedom, remember?
Do you have to give that
up to regain that sense
of purpose?
Absolutely
not.
Thousands
of people of all ages
are making money in home
businesses that allow
them to be their own bosses
and retain the
exhilaration of the freedom
to run their own lives.
At the same time, they're
able to generate extra
income to bulk up the
nest egg and provide substantially
more financial security
for the 20, 30 or more
years to come. Freedom
from financial worry is
just as important as freedom
from job demands if you're
going to enjoy the rest
of your life. And as a
home-based entrepreneur,
you can still enjoy all
the dreams you planned.
As long as you have a
computer and a phone,
you can run your "home"
business from anywhere
you call home-including
your vacation cottage,
RV, or even your favorite
beach.
If
you're retired, or soon
will be, now is the time
to get started. You already
have the skills you need.
With a little extra help
from the experts, you
can fine-tune them and
start right away to put
a sense of purpose back
in your life.
Just
fill out the form below
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